Have you ever found yourself saying “yes” when you desperately wanted to say “no”? Or maybe you’ve swallowed your true thoughts to keep the peace, even as resentment bubbled inside you. If these scenarios sound familiar, you might be caught in the cycle of people pleasing – that exhausting pattern of prioritizing others’ needs and opinions above your own. I’ve been there too, and I know how it gradually erodes your sense of self until your authentic voice becomes a whisper you can barely hear. People pleasing isn’t just about being nice – it’s a complex behavior pattern often rooted…
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Have you ever found yourself saying “yes” when you really want to say “no”? Or maybe you’ve been feeling exhausted, overwhelmed, and unable to find joy in things that once made you happy? If so, you might be experiencing what I call boundary burnout. This state occurs when our personal limits have been crossed so many times that we’re left feeling depleted, resentful, and emotionally drained. Boundary fatigue isn’t just about being tired—it’s about the gradual erosion of our self-protective barriers that keep us healthy and whole. In our hyper-connected world, maintaining personal limits has become increasingly challenging. We’re expected…